My Tantra Style

My Tantra style is what I call mixed modality Tantra. That is I don’t prescribe to any one philosophy or approach but apply a variety of different tantra techniques and philosophies. I offer two types of tantra and the type you receive will depend on your desires and intent and what I feel your need is.

Sensual Experiential Tantra

Experiential tantra is about surrendering to the sensual experience and the acceptance of pleasure and love. The focus in this session is on the physical experience with the aim being deep relaxation and stimulation of sexual energies towards a sustained peak at the end. You should leave the session feeling deeply relaxed yet energised. Most of the session will be focused on massage and hands on techniques.

Healing Therapeutic Tantra

Therapeutic tantra focuses on the healing practices element of tantra. You will generally have a specific issue or concern that is sexual in nature which is the focus of the session. The session will use a combination of physical, psychological and energetic techniques to firstly relax your body and deal with underlying stress and anxiety, and secondly to start to unpack and release negative sexual experiences, trauma, attitudes and self limiting beliefs. Some of the session will be focused on psychotherapies and mindfulness practices.

Some of the things you might experience during Tantra with me include:

  • Sensual and relaxation massage

  • Erotic touching of erogenous zones and genital areas

  • Lingam / Yoni tantra focusing on erotic touching and healing practices

  • Orgasmic finish

  • Breathwork (breathing exercises and practices)

  • Guided meditation and mindfulness

  • Mind-body therapy (this is a series of practices to connect and align your mindscape with your bodyscape)

  • Guided affirmations (these are self-statements or mantras to move your mindscape to a more positive state)

  • Psychotherapies (talking therapies)

  • Energetic balancing (chakra balancing / energetic work similar to Reiki)

  • Aromatherapy treatments

  • Touch and intimacy therapies (such as therapeutic hugging or touch, eye gazing or similar)

I currently do not offer prostate massage as part of my tantra sessions.