Lingam massage is useful for those experiencing difficulties such as premature ejaculation or inability to achieve orgasm. For premature ejaculation the session will typically include use of breathwork and increased awareness of the physical sensations in your body to learn how to control your physiological responses. Such sessions may or may not finish with ejaculation. Many lingam practitioners who focus on therapy and trauma healing do not offer ejaculation as a finish and will massage the penis and bring you close to orgasm, but finish with a relaxation massage. The intent behind this is the preserve your sexual energy and keep it within your body by not having an external release. Some practitioners will teach ejaculation retention which is about achieving orgasm without external ejaculation to preserve your sexual energy. Non ejaculatory sessions are useful for those experiencing premature ejaculation as you learn how to receive pleasure without expectation and how to remain relaxed yet energized.

Yoni massage will start as a slow, sensual massage, gradually building up the sexual tension and touching of the key erogenous zones on a woman’s body (neck, breasts, inner thigh, vulva and vagina). When the receiver is ready, the vulva and then vagina will be touched, increasing sexual awareness and pleasure to heightened levels by the end of the session. The session may involve some breathwork, guided meditation and energetic work to acknowledge and unblock and negative issues or energies. The session may or may not involve an orgasmic release, but as with Lingam, orgasm is not a central goal. If internal stimulation is provided, different areas of the vagina may be stimulated. Many women find that Yoni is less a sexual experience than an emotional one.